What are the virtues of a coachable person?

What are the virtues of a coachable person?

Cristiano Ronaldo is a lot of things. 

This week Real Madrid played Juventes in the second leg of a home and away series.  The caption under the photo reads:  Cristiano Ronaldo shows what he is made of after scoring the penalty that saved Real Madrid from Champions League humiliation against Juventus.  The man is a beast on the football (soccer) pitch!  

Ronaldo is a champion, he loves the BIG stage, he is THE MAN when everything is on the line.  In addition, he is seldom criticized for his humility.  I’ve found that humility is one of the key qualities of a coachable person in the arenas you and I minister.

What makes a person coachable?  I’ve been asked this question and have thought about a concise response. Most of the time, I vett potential leaders that I am considering to coach using my intuition.  Here are some of the issues I consider:

  • Like-minded vision
  • Like-minded values
  • Like-minded expectations for coaching
  • Alignment in the “x” factor(s)
  • And the all important – chemistry!

In general, I believe a coachable person is one who is willing to work hard. A coachable person is teachable, that is, they desire to learn and grow. A coachable person possesses a high degree of self-awareness.

Do you coach leaders within local churches?

Do you coach leaders in church planting networks?

Do you coach leaders in mission societies?

I’ve coached leaders in the venues mentioned above at about every imaginable position, and for years I’ve had the good fortune of attracting people who fit the description of a coachable person above. When I hear leaders struggle with people they lead, supervise and develop; I’ve discovered that the three virtues Patrick Lencioni identifies in The Ideal Team Player provides a great framework to vett strong team members, employees and people you want to coach. Let me suggest the three virtues, along with a key question that I use to help vett potential leaders to coach.

Three virtues of a coachable person:

  1. Hungry – Is this person a hard worker?
  2. Humble – Is this person eager to learn?
  3. Smart – Is this person emotionally self-aware?

Of course, if you are leading a team and you have inherited the members of the team, you must work with the personnel you have. As a church planter, you may not have the luxury to recruit the ideal team player; but this gives you an idea of the qualities to look for. Likewise, when people approach you to coach them, these virtues along with the clarifying question can guide your decision-making process.

The three qualities were identified in The Ideal Team Player by Patrick Lencioni; and provide a helpful description of who would make a good candidate for you to coach.

A New Commandment

A New Commandment

Christ’s “mandate” is commemorated on Maundy Thursday—“maundy” being a shortened form of mandatum (Latin), which means “command.” It was on the Thursday of Christ’s final week before being crucified and resurrected that He said these words to his disciples:

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another” (John 13:34).

It is a solemn time for people of Faith.  Jesus supped with his disciples, washed their feet and warned them of what was about to come.  In our rush to move to Sunday with the anticipation of Christ’s resurrection we can miss this critical moment in time.

Several years ago I was asked to play THE part for our church’s dramatic presentation of the Lord’s Supper on Maundy Thursday.  I memorized and recited the John 16 passage, word for word, verse by verse.  Through that exercise I lived the Last Supper in my mind and with my co-actors.  It became more and more real to me the closer we approached the evening of the performance.

I remember the solemn posture I took as I embodied His words.  I imagined the humility that was required of Jesus that night.  The fear that must have surrounded his thoughts.  But in the midst of all of that, he embodied the essence of his life in a new command: “that you love one another: just as I have loved you.”  A message our world so desperately needs to embrace today!

As we pause to reflect today on what Jesus did, let’s not forget His exhortation to pass on the love that comes through His life, His grace and His love.

When does Discipleship Begin?

When does Discipleship Begin?

Disciplemaking Collective Overview: March 5 @ 2:30pm PST/5:30pm EST

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Disciplemaking Collective Overview: March 5 @ 2:30pm PST/5:30pm EST for this important FREE informational webinar to learn more about the Disciplemaking Collective. Please register here to confirm your spot and write “Disciplemaking Collective Overview” in the Message box. Click Disciplemaking Collective Overview Login to enter the webinar.

Thank you for your commitment to make more and better disciples through coaching.

Tis’ the Season to be Grateful

Tis’ the Season to be Grateful

Thanksgiving is my favorite time of year. More than Christmas or Easter; Thanksgiving solicits a different response from me. I absolutely love and embrace the history passed-on from our forefathers:

“It has been celebrated as a federal holiday every year since 1864, when, during the American Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed a national day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens,to be celebrated on the last Thursday in November.”

Let me take a moment to highlight three men that have facilitated the growth and expansion of InFocus. Each member of the InFocus Board has a particular role and contribution.  I give thanks to the Lord for the wisdom they have provided over the years.

In the midst of the family gatherings, friends and fun; it is easy to forget the need to give thanks. I encourage you to “give thanks” to those who have supported you in your leadership journey this last year.

  • Who are the influential people in your life?

See this blog from earlier this year, for a list of people who have made my leadership journey possible; as a prompt for you to give thanks for the people God has used in your life.

The Power of InFocus Collectives

What is the purpose of a Collective?

Collectives are focused learning intensives that focus on the best practices to make more & better disciples by creating the healthiest environments possible.

  • Activate your vision through individualized coaching.
  • Assess your framework to cultivate a movement of disciples and healthy churches by interacting with other members of the Collective.
  • Apply principles in designing an action plan to implement in your context.

Who are the Collectives going to impact most?

Disciplemaking Collective
  • Micro-Church Planters
    • I’ve put a lot of thought into this one. The Disciplemaking Collective is ideal for the leader of a disciple-making movement with the goal of rapid reproduction. Daniel B has been instrumental in establishing over 400 Discovery Bible Studies in five years; catalyzing a movement of disciples, making disciples.
Church Multiplication Collective
  • Regional leaders within denominational systems/networks
    • From my perspective, the most challenging role within the church hierarchy is the regional leader. Why? The regional leader leads exclusively through influence (in many networks). Perhaps a close second is the national leader who is charged to leverage influence through the regional leaders; but the conduit to get anything done is the regional leader

What is unique about the Collectives?

  • We’ll discuss the principles.for disciplemaking and church multiplication.
  • We’ll lean from the experienced, seasoned practitioners.
  • We’ll learn in a coach-facilitated conversation vs. an information download.

Why would I join one?

  1. The timing is right: Start 2018 with a plan.
  2. The community is right: Focused leaders intent on the same goal.
  3. The cost is right: Over the 6 months of the Collective, it comes to $5/day.

If not you – who?

  • This is a great opportunity if you have a disciplemaking or church multiplication ministry focus. There may also be leaders in your circle of influence that need what Collectives have to offer. Please share this blog with them and ask/challenge then to consider a Collective.